When we talk about digital behaviour it’s so important that, as parents, we walk the walk as well as talk the talk, so to speak.
If we want to be good role models, build trust and stay connected to our kids, we have to be aware of our own example in an honest and authentic way. A good rule of thumb is to ask yourself these questions, and ask them often.
Am I being mindful of my digital behavior?
How are you using technology and social media? What signals are you sending with your online behavior? How do you present yourself online, and are you mindful of your digital footprint?
Am I being a good example?
Do I follow the rules I set for my children? Am I putting my phone away during meals and other important moments? Do I pay attention to how I use my phone around others, and focus on maintaining eye contact with people rather than with my phone?
Am I being authentic and open?
Can I acknowledge my own mistakes and show that it’s okay to make them, while modeling how to get back on track? Do I create an environment of openness where kids feel comfortable sharing their experiences and missteps?
Do I respect my child’s boundaries, privacy and ask for consent?
Do I ask for permission before sharing photos of my children on social media? Am I mindful of their feelings and need for privacy?
Do I engage in their digital lives?
Do I show interest in what my kids do online and who they interact with just as I would in their regular life? Remember, it’s just as valuable to show interest in their online hobbies, activities, and friends as we would in their soccer games, choir concerts, and classmates.
Am I able to connect in positivity?
Do I talk openly about both the positive and negative aspects of being online? Am I able to see the benefits as well as the negative aspects and remember we use technology for a lot of the same reasons?
